Writings

March 31, 2016

Spotlight: Clover Clamps

Welcome to the first in my Spotlight blog series where we look at some of my favorite toys, where to get them, how to use them, […]
February 29, 2016

What happens during an overnight session?

What happens when a pro-domme and a sub are left alone together for over 12 hours? Here’s a taste…
November 8, 2015

Music in BDSM Play Sessions

Picking the right music to play to is important. The noise in the background sets the mood for what you’re doing. Even if you do just […]
October 19, 2015
Claire Black boots on beach

Kinky Holiday – Final Words

October 18, 2015

Kinky Holiday Review: The submissive view

How the holiday looked from the submissive’s perspective. What is it like to travel with a Dominatrix?
October 17, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The Last Day

The final day of the BDSM retreat. Reflections on how I connect with people in BDSM play, and disconnect to stay sane. Plus the usual shenanigans […]
October 16, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The Third Day

Day 3 of our D/s retreat, more fun and games, reflecting on the nature of a Dominatrix/client relationship and complex power dynamics involved. Plus a super […]
October 15, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The Second Day

Day two of a BDSM holiday exploring the limits of dominance and submission, more caning, domestic bliss, bondage, CBT, a frilly maid and a country gentleman.
October 14, 2015

Kinky Holiday: The First Day

The first day of a trip to Scotland to explore the limits of a D/s relationship. Submissive contracts, dressing up, negotiations, chastity, canes, skinny-dipping. Including pictures.
October 13, 2015
Travelling BDSM kit

Kinky Holiday: Prep & Packing

The first installment of a series of blog posts about a 4 day D/s trip to Scotland. What does it take to prepare for an intensive […]
August 30, 2015

Conversational Dominance and Power: A bit of a rant

Musings on power balance in conversation. What is happening when someone persistently talks over another and how is this relevant in a BDSM setting.
July 27, 2015

Shibari Demo

Details of my Shibari performance at the Buddha Bar in Knightsbridge
June 23, 2015

Bin Bag Fetish

Meeting people with unusual fetishes is always a delight. Here’s what happens when I meet someone with a bin bag fetish
June 10, 2015
London Mistress Sir Claire Black beatdown, trampling, punishment, crush under my boot

Beatdown Erotica

Ever curious to know what goes through the minds of people I play with I asked Paul, a talented writer I’ve had the pleasure of beating […]
May 9, 2015

Candle Wax Poetry

Some words written after a particularly hot (in every sense of the word) wax play session
March 24, 2014

Pain and Power

I was asked to write an article recently about how being in pain in a BDSM context can actually make the receiver feel more powerful, here […]