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Writings
April 11, 2018
When you’re going to visit a Dominatrix the golden rule regarding timing is to be on time! All of these notes and tips are from my […]
April 3, 2018
There’s a stereotype of Dominatrix serviced by men eager to please, men doing everything for their Goddess so she need never left a finger around the […]
November 18, 2017
I’ve created the ultimate birthday fantasy scene for myself. This is, for the most part, made up from actual experiences I’ve had, with a couple of […]
November 14, 2017
Preparation for any session is vitally important; preparation of my mind and my body, as well as the physical space. After 6 years of offering professional […]
September 21, 2017
They should do whatever the fuck they want! Now we’ve got that out of the way, here are some more detailed thoughts. Body hair is […]
August 13, 2017
I wait in my leather Chesterfield chair. You walk in hunched and anxious at first, then eyes wide with surprise and wonder as you notice the […]
August 1, 2017
A submissive of mine asked for a brutal beatdown with toys, pushing things further than ever, something he would never forget. This is what happened… […]
May 13, 2017
The fabulous Anna Williams recently wrote an excellent blog post on how to create a lovely sensual atmosphere in a hotel room. She focuses on stimulating […]
April 27, 2017
A while back I asked my Twitter followers what they would like to know about me in a blog post and this question came up: What’s […]
March 22, 2017
I was asked recently what makes a session creatively fun/satisfying for a Domme? This question will have many different answers for different Dommes. For me it […]
February 3, 2017
Do you remember Andrew who wrote such a lovely review of his humiliation and degradation session? If you missed it you can read it here. Well, he […]
January 28, 2017
A few weeks ago I had a request to make a custom video clip from a lovely gentleman, lets call him Paul, who couldn’t visit me […]
December 11, 2016
What does it feel like to be humiliated and degraded by a Dominatrix? I don’t often indulge in humiliation and degradation play. Sometimes a little around […]
December 2, 2016
When I was just discovering orgasms I remember one night was particularly incredible. I looked at my wondrous fingers afterwards and realised they were covered in […]
November 15, 2016
The thing I love most about being a pro-domme is the variety; every day, every session is different. Media is awash with stereotypes of the Dominatrix […]
October 25, 2016
It’s so tempting to paint a rosy picture of my life on social media. It’s easy to celebrate the success and gloss over (or entirely ignore) […]
July 1, 2016
Welcome to the third in my Spotlight blog series where we look at some of my favorite toys, where to get them, how to use them, […]
June 28, 2016
A few weeks ago I posted a write up of a delightful session of trampling and kicking Did you see it? When checking in that the […]
May 12, 2016
Last week’s session that was so much fun we repeated the very next day!
May 1, 2016
Welcome to the second in my Spotlight blog series where we look at some of my favorite toys, where to get them, how to use them, […]